Talked with a guy from this site 4 about a month. His pfile name is needloving55. He wanted me to open my heart and commit. Decided to open up. Expressed my feelings. After an argument he told me I wasnt doing that. I poured my heart out to him. Instead of saying sorry and taking it back, that he never meant 4 it to hurt me. He kept taking me trying to discuss it as wanting to argue He kept cutting me off. After balling my eyes out, I ended it. I still hurt over it. All I want is 4 him to still want to be w/me and ark 4 us to reconcile. Now lost and dont know where to go from here.

@Jenc28: sounds like were in tha same boat. I have thoughts of trying to reconsile AND reverse this spell im in. I dunno if u check this often but if u need someone to talk to crab about it cry whatever...just like my thread no bs or anything, im avalible cause i just need a friend

O sweety i am so sorry that happen to u

I'm really sorry that happened to you. A small piece of advice, don't open up too much. Don't give it all up too fast. You have to keep that sense of mystery or people tend to get bored. That's just my experience.

@whitney thats very wise advise. OP it sounds like u need to just forget him and move forward slowly.

Im w them on that. Im tryin to move on from her myself

Personaly i believe theres alot of us n luv with love so we get so caught up with that we have a hard time gettin past a person that has captured our hearts and minds.

I like the "mystery" & dan's input :D


Personally, if a guy lost his interest with me, i don't take any action for reconciliation especially if i knew i done no wrong. Of course, i understand that in a month , there was hope and you were disappointed but there's still a lot of fish available, better fish :)

Just wanted to say, I read all ur opinions. I thank all of u 4 ur help. I wish u all the best. Again thank u so much. I have been able to let go a little more. It only bothers me where easy to think. Alone in bed as trying to fall asleep. Going to keep faith and not give up. Thank u all, best of luck to all.

Im sure he dont realize what hes missing