I think sometimes its a confidants thing and being scared of rejection but that's not just a women thing. I also think its just rude not to answer back if someone has taken the time to send a message but that's just me ;)

If a guy messages me with something other than "Hey" or "What's up sexy?" then yes, I'll reply. If I'm not interested, I let them know in a considerate way. I've never been rude to anyone here. I do call it old-fashioned to prefer a guy approach me first, but I don't send him on a roller coaster. If he makes the first move, I make the second. If he makes the third, I make the forth etc. And somewhere down the line we'll know we're into each other and make all the moves together lol. Women are different: some like to be pursued, some like to pursue. But like someone else said again, if the majority of women here are telling you the same thing...it would be in your best interest to listen. Sometimes you have to put your pride and ego aside and say "Hey. I'm into this woman, I'm going to get to know her." I mean....what you gonna do? See a woman you want but don't make the first move and wait for her to do it? That's how people miss out. Good luck.

@alynn: very well said especially on taking the advice.... if a woman is telling you what a woman wants in general.... that is probably a good time to listen.... okay I'm ginna out myself. So everybody can have a good laugh... when I was younger I would go as far as reading cosmo to get hints into what y'all were thinking lmao

@kowboy2477: Lol that is a good laugh, but it's cute. And it actually shows that you were putting in some effort to get to know what women are about, and how to approach them the right way. I ain't mad at ya there.

If i see sum1 that im attracted 2 i would approach them, alot of girls do...mayb sum have fear of rejection or just think thats tha mans job...but eitha way with men and women if u c sumthin u want u better get on it b4 sum1 else do

I talk back to them to do not be rude but some guy do not hardly but anything but hey

I answer people all the time stating im not interested and why. I had one two days ago that said he loved me and i was his woman. Told him im dating someone and he need to read where i wasnt looking. And yesterday i got one i read you file and like it and wanted my for his girl. I asked what he liked about my file the fact im not looking or my pic. He liked my pic cause im pretty. And nicely said not looking hope you find what your looking for.

Lmao....it's like some of these guys can't read..and then those of us that can look really good hahaha

I alwase get them guy and i am married

@kowboy yea aint that the truth. Or the just dont want to read. Look at rachelle f-f and guys still message her.