How many chances would you give that person your heart tells you is "the one"? I gave mine several and i should have known better. So here i sit once again with my heart feeling like its been ripped out and im alone again.

I don't believe in second chances. Let them get away with it once, they will do it again.

It depends on what they do. If they cheat or lie about important material, I'm gone. Also, if they hide information that should have been released but want and you had to find out, it really depends in what happened.

Would you like to talk about it? I've had my fair share of bad relationships.

@MissNicoleDuckie: don't you think it depends on the situation?

No. because normally the only things meant in these are cheating, beating, lying, or leaving. If a guy just does something stupid that is not within those catagories, then it's not giving a second chance, it is letting go of something stupid and irrelevent.

. So true!!

@MissNicoleDuckie: so day someone did a stupid act in the past and they want to keep it secret from you because they fear you'll leave them because of it even though it's been taken care of?

@Hope55: Then I would understand it so long as not within the catagories I named. But it still would not be a second chance. If it does not make you think of leaving or make you question the relationship, it is just not making a mountain out of a mole hill.

@MissNicoleDuckie: thank you. I think I will tell my special someone about what happened now. You have a lot of wisdom. Thank you. I just hope it brings us closer and not farther apart

I used to be that no second chances person. but like i said the heart said differantly. i think with me getting old im just getting stupidier and more gullible.