@acire that is true but when he is home he is home and if u look at just about any honest blue color job thats a "manly" job he is going to wrk 10 or more hrs and add the drive to and from work. a man mite sleep n the same bed with u but really how much time do u get to spend with each other.

I was with him over 5 yrs we didnt have trust issues we split cuz of outside issue. What i hated was the worrying. And when he was home time flew but when gone it was draaaging

Im thinking living with someone that is gone part of time and home part of the time might be a good thing...u git to anticipate when he is coming home yet just as ur getting on each others nerves he is gone agin then u miss him and cant wait for him to be home agin....sounds good to me....as long as trust is involved,of course :o)~

@brats52005: lmao at the spider monkey

@Acire: i actually do understand that part of it...and it does take a special kind of woman and relationship...what bugs me when some1 simply refuses to even give you a chance because of ur job...but i do acknowledge it comes with issues but not anymore then a reg. Long distance relationship! !

Yeah i can understand. Thats wrong to refuse to give a chance. I dont do that i just was tryin to think of why a woman might not do it other than the candy cane angle lmao

LMAO....i knew we would get another candy cane reference....the worst part is i liked that movie!!

@LaDawn1974: i guess i never got to the point where i was ready for him to go lol that dam phone would ringand i would bum right away lol

Ok im not sure what candy cane issue is please explain. Where im from you give everyone a chance to either be there or screw you over before you judge. Ive never heard of it must live to long in the loggers neck of the woods. And yes @kowboy a spider monkey they are smaller and cuter. Who wants to carry around a chimpanzee that gets as hevey as a four year old that can walk.

Yeah i get that...i don't know about him but speaking for myself when i was in a relationship i was never ready either...that's why i would try to make my time at home as special as i could....and remind myself that every mile helped pay more bills and brought me closer to home! !