@Brats: thats life move forward and never look back

@donna: i agree with u no violence

I know thats what i did.

Wow, the wisdom of forgiveness everybody's sharing here are worth for me to ponder.

I honestly have that difficulty to FORGIVE. I haven't forgiven my ex after many years of separation. I just tend to be civil because we have a child but I still hate Him.

Yes, there's a heavy baggage and wise statements here might melt my stone-like heart :D

@rainbow it took me awhile to forgive them. I hated them all. But it takes more energy to hate and fight. Then to smile and love. I dont trust them as far as i can throw them but forgiving them was less stress then hating them.

Violence and cheating thats what my last relationship was all about i stayed with him for 8 years it gave him a high when he saw me down i dont look back i think bout it Rainbowbutterfly i had 2 forgive him or i could have never moved on or love again hated him for 8 years and it was a misable 8 years hate is evil just like he was hate will ruin ur life u have 2 find forgiveness 2 love again......

Well I hope sissy , i'll find room of forgiveness in my heart before i die :D...what you said is true and im trying to avoid him so he will not bring negative energy :D,

@heikeva: true, i am lock on that " darkness" although in fairness he made me a better person but perhap s I dont know, Im on that struggle. Perhaps because he's the only man i trusted so much and he abused it. I dont know or Im bad of not forgiving :(

@Rainbowbutterfly: I know u can and i know u will u r a wonderful person who deserves peace and love xox <3

@heikeva: :D, Thanks and hopefully soon..., perhaps , that's why I am on a dating site making some changes :D but not looking yet....

````hugs ````xoxoxoxo :D