Your views and opinions are not necessarily truth or fact. Not all guys are as shallow as you claim. So stop spreading your opinion as the be all end all truth.

@shalanda: you can contact me if u want chat.just mail me at [email protected] aur text at 00923454866253 me waiting

Eish! Why is it so hard for a couple jst to be open and honest with ea other! We supposed to be there for ea other! Why must we complicate what can really be so simple-do ppl in general just find complications more exciting? I apparently give too much in a relationship-since when is that bad?

Anyone ever seen "the thrut about cats and dogs"?

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Actually, deep down, all "men" are not that way, don't care about "cockblocking", are not liars and are pretty honest about their attentions...most of them want to be truthful and are looking for the same thing as most women are, in reality...a faithful, honest person who's head isn't attached to their genitals, expectations...posts like this kind of give all of us a bad name..lol. True intentions and motivations are important and should never be colored by machismo, tough guy attitudes or personal opinion, they should just be...what you are describing is an insensitive, insecure person who could be male or female and is not in tune with who they actually are, and are acting upon a socially accepted norm. Integrity is knowing who you are, being true to that 100% and having the courtesy to consider those around you as much as humanly possible...paying close attention to the ripples that your stones make in the pond...because eventually the ripple reflects back on you.
Peace and Joy,
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@shalanda: It depends on our own defination of been good. For as much as I know, there are good men everywhere. So just come up with what you need or want in a man. I bet you, you will get it.

Interesting

Alot of times theres a good guy right under your nose but you dont give him a chance

Well said bluedream. I know I have so much to offer. Faithfulness, fidelity, honesty, love, and so much more. I've been in this site and others for a while now and I see sooo often "where are all the good men?" or "why can't I find a good man?" and I can't help but think, if you gave me anything more than a passing thought you'd find a great man right here. @all ladies, I wish I could give you something better, but (my opinion only) you can't find good men because you DONT LOOK for good men. You look for what you've always looked for and wind up finding exactly that. Not good men. All the while guys like me, "good men" sit idle and wait. But I promise you ladies this..... Wait too long and this good man will leave the market. So will the others and you'll be stuck with the same ol' thing...... Bad men who hurt you.