@CanadianGirl73: thank you hun ,,that was sweet....she knew what i was doing....i was building my business up

@brats52005: well ,,,i was home every night....i will admit it was late ...but she had a vehicle ,a phone, and she knew where to find me. i was building up my business to support my family....she got everything she asked for but it wasnt given to me ,,,i had to buy it ! and i didnt mind at all...i was honered....now shes on foodstamps,living with a lowlife with no job,and no wheels..left me for that! i just dont get it...

Sometimes , there are some who are impulsive in making decisions and regrets later on. Might be the case of your ex... Or perhaps, you'd been out of balance when you were too focus on your business

@Rainbowbutterfly: everything i did revolved around them...i wanted to give them a life i never had.....

There's nothing wrong about that. It's normal, that you, being the head of the family wanted to give the best for your family , it's admirable. Communication is one of the keys for healthy relationship. If you think that she was the one who has fault for everything , then move on.I'm sure, she did realize her mistake by now

I agree with rainbow. Shes probably regretting her mistake. Because she knows wrongs like this can never ever corrected. And she will regret it a very long time. So im glad you joined mobi there are alot of great people on here. Hope you find your one and only soon. Good luck to you. You deserve a good woman.

@Rainbowbutterfly: move on is exactly what im trying to do....lol.. thats the whole reason im spilling it to everyone.....im 40 and maybe im too old to even find true love again.....i had so much more game back then....lol

Well im 42 this year. Im not to old. And neither are you.

There's a lot of good women out there just like there's a lot of good men
Just gotta weed through the bad to find the good

Isn't it life begins at 40? :)

Our hearts never gets old, it beats just like the heart of an 18 years old. You have an edge on your next relationship; wiser & better :)