So when I am intersted in a girl, but I don't know how to approach her without coming off as a creep (a constent fear for single men).
So a Wink is an easy way of saying "I am interested in you" but we can't really think of any ice breakers...
But alot of girls get harassed in messages. Please vote, and help us poor guys :-(

Messages would be better. Winks would be an indirect way of expressing things,but that would leave the girl guessing what exact words you wanted to say. :) To be fair for both parties,and to get to know each other as well, send messages rather than shooting out winks! Hee. :) That's my opinion though. :)

I think if u are interested u need to do more then hit a wink button. I personally dont reply to winks....but I do say thank u for all roses cuz they only have 2 a month....but if u want my attention u need to tell me by a message....make a lil effort

Good to know.
Wheres with me personally, I prefer winks, cause it tells me she is interested, but that I get to make the first "real" move (like a true gentlemen)

@BaNNshEy: True that! The best way? Send her a wink(just to get her attention),and when she winks back, send her a message right away! :)

I prefer winks, if I send one back then message me. A wink is like a smile across a crowded room, if I don't wanna respond then I don't hafta hear what he has to say

what i think is funny and kinda sad at the same time is i keep getting winks and messages by the exact opposite of what my profile purely states as to what im looking for smh lol

@96Icarus69: Lol! :) Maybe you just have to wait 'til the right one winks at you! :)

lmao. Dont really have a choice but to haha

Same thing, like I am not into girls who smoke or do drugs, and to a lesser extent, drinking. And most of the attention I get is from Drug addicts and partygoers.