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Do you guys believe that Long distance relationship works? (by Nursehanee15)

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 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
17-Dec-12 4:47 pm
@Nursehanee15: Yes true. But if they both trust and communicate to each other then everything should be fine. Those are the foundation to any good relationship long distance or face to face.

 

 

 
 
 Nursehanee15 (14)    (35 / F-M / Philippines)
17-Dec-12 4:55 pm
@Shellbelle: this did helped me a lot! thanks, lovely! :D

 

 

 
 
 Shellbelle 
17-Dec-12 5:08 pm
@Nursehanee15: you r very welcome! :)

 

 

 
 
 MELANCON69 
17-Dec-12 5:15 pm
nope. Sooner or later one of u will start to stray away and find someone that lives closer. People meed more to hold than a telephone or a computer. It just like a man that works offshore on oil rigs. His wife at home cant even wait 2 weeks to a month without going out and looking for something to play with. Its just setting yourself up for heartache. Im not saying it never works out, but the odds are probably something like 1000 to 1.

 

 

 
 
 lilmama87 (12)    (37 / F-M / West Virginia)
17-Dec-12 5:21 pm
i think it can work as long as you both truly want it and are willing to work for it... Yea it will be hard but what relationship isnt

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
17-Dec-12 5:24 pm
nope. Sooner or later one of u will start to stray away and find someone that lives closer. People meed more to hold than a telephone or a computer. It just like a man that works offshore on oil rigs. His wife at home cant even wait 2 weeks to a month without going out and looking for something to play with. Its just setting yourself up for heartache. Im not saying it never works out, but the odds are probably something like 1000 to 1.
Not all of us are like that. I have always been true to myself and my man. I hope i have found that man thats like me no matter distance that we are.

 

 

 
 
 Nursehanee15 (14)    (35 / F-M / Philippines)
17-Dec-12 5:40 pm
@MELANCON69: Your opinions are your opinions! :) Thanks for participating, Mr.Melancon69! :D

 

 

 
 
 Nursehanee15 (14)    (35 / F-M / Philippines)
17-Dec-12 5:42 pm
@lilmama87: You'll both go through the same basic things like fights, missing each other, and loving each other more everyday. Ayt? :)

 

 

 
 
 MELANCON69 
17-Dec-12 5:58 pm
nope. Sooner or later one of u will start to stray away and find someone that lives closer. People meed more to hold than a telephone or a computer. It just like a man that works offshore on oil rigs. His wife at home cant even wait 2 weeks to a month without going out and looking for something to play with. Its just setting yourself up for heartache. Im not saying it never works out, but the odds are probably something like 1000 to 1.
Not all of us are like that. I have always been true to myself and my man. I hope i have found that man thats like me no matter distance that we are.
hope is what it is. Hope. You cant hope someone is being faithful. The simple fact that u have no idea what the other person is up to will make u think the worst. Thats when trust comes into play. Its then when doubt sets in. Once that happens. U can pretty much shut it down. Like i said, it can work out, but the longer it takes for u to actually meet the person, the more likely its not gunna work out. Its human nature. Could u honestly see your self in a 10 year long distance relationship where neither of u is unfaithful? I seriously doubt it. People dont work that way.

 

 

 
 
 JustMeAndYou77 (17)   (47 / F-M / Florida)
17-Dec-12 6:05 pm
nope. Sooner or later one of u will start to stray away and find someone that lives closer. People meed more to hold than a telephone or a computer. It just like a man that works offshore on oil rigs. His wife at home cant even wait 2 weeks to a month without going out and looking for something to play with. Its just setting yourself up for heartache. Im not saying it never works out, but the odds are probably something like 1000 to 1.
I happen to agree with this. It isn't as exciting as imagining a romantic situation from a distance, but it is more successful to date someone from a different area of the same town or city within that state, than it is from state to state or country to country.

 

 

 
 
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