i met 3 different women on here since june. Just when things start gettin halfway serious, one had been lying the whole time about who she was talkin to on the site, one gave me some b.s. about the fact that im too young after about 3 months, and the other one found someone else and waited a week before she told me. I was nothing but nice, honest, and repectful. Why is it that all the good guys get the shaft? Im starting to think women like being treated like $hit. I guess ill just have to start being an a hole just to get a woman to like me or at least be honest with me. What gives?

Nice guys finish last, least that's what I started to beleive too. In a way, I still do, but I won't be an a hole just to prove a point or such. (Well, I did have a go where I wanted nothing serious and just flirted, etc.. but that died down fast)

I really can't answer that but I will say, don't lower your standards just to find "someone", find THE one for you.

No idea, people in general are lazy, stupid, dishonest and untrustworthy, not just women, pretty much everyone. It happens, and its super annoying when it does, even soul crushing. Coming from a real, honest person, try to take it all in stride. And if that fails you, always expect the worst, at least then youre overly cautious and never let down.

@anonymoususer321: thats good advice dude cuz i dont like being something im not.

Very true !

@LucySDisguise: maybe thats my problem. I always expect the worst as an inevitability, and the worst happens because of that. Maybe i should be a lil more careful and not let my guard down so easily. I think maybe im too soft hearted and quick to trust people. Thanks for the eye opener.

mate you just cant get to know some one totally on the net you shouldnt get to into them until you meet them

@rigger: yeah, i should have thought about that before all hell broke loose.

I agree. Because I learned the hard way.