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Dont know where to begin.... (by Erika04)

 Erika04 
12-Dec-12 5:02 am
Ok so i just found out when i was about 15 that my dad(my moms husband)isnt my biological father but he is all i have knwn as my dad since i was 3 months old. All i know about my "sperm donor" is his first n last name nd tht he has 6 kids (including me). I want to find and maybe build a relationship with my other sibilings but not my "sperm donor"....Has any1 been in this situation before and know what i could do or where to begin? :/

 

 

 
 
 bigred1219 
12-Dec-12 5:07 am
wow. Thats stinks. I've never have been like that but i have a buddy that was adopted then he met his real parents and they were drug dealers. I hope you finally get to meet him someday.

 

 

 
 
 Erika04 
12-Dec-12 5:12 am
@bigred1219: but see thats the thing i dont want to meet him i want to meet my sibilings

 

 

 
 
 bigred1219 
12-Dec-12 5:13 am
well thats fine to.

 

 

 
 
 Erika04 
12-Dec-12 5:15 am
@bigred1219: i just dnt know where to start

 

 

 
 
 bigred1219 
12-Dec-12 5:29 am
well lets see. Thats a tough one. I think that there might be some sort of data base but i couldn't tell ya.

 

 

 
 
 OnlyTrueRomeoCowboy 
12-Dec-12 5:33 am
Ok so i just found out when i was about 15 that my dad(my moms husband)isnt my biological father but he is all i have knwn as my dad since i was 3 months old. All i know about my "sperm donor" is his first n last name nd tht he has 6 kids (including me). I want to find and maybe build a relationship with my other sibilings but not my "sperm donor"....Has any1 been in this situation before and know what i could do or where to begin? :/
I was adopted at 5 i have birth siblings and i have relationships with them but not birth mom

 

 

 
 
 Erika04 
12-Dec-12 5:33 am
@bigred1219: ya my mom says theres ppl to help but it costs so much

 

 

 
 
 Erika04 
12-Dec-12 5:46 am
@OnlyTrueRomeoCowboy: but see being adopted is kinda different i think i just dnt know :/

 

 

 
 
 OnlyTrueRomeoCowboy 
12-Dec-12 5:50 am
No and yes ur dad "adopted" u cus he said he would cus ur sperm doner wasnt around rite? Mine was legal his was not just paper that says so anyway

 

 

 
 
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