Can a woman change a man`s lifestyle for the better?

@BabyboyBrooklyn: a mans lifestyle can change for a woman....but she didn't change him. Him caring for her changed him. jmo

@LaDawn1974: i hear that. What if that neva happen for that man. And he try different places, and whateva to find her, and neva did yet. Do he give up?

I dont think a woman can change a mans lifestyles, but i do believe what a woman has to offer can change him. Take a man that has never been truely loved, never shown affection, give him a good hearted woman who treats him like a man, i think his lifestyle will change without him even realizing it. U respond to ur surroundings and how u r treated by others.

@Briteeyes1211: I can agree with that, !

the thing about change for both men and women is that you can't honestly change FOR someone else. you have to want to change. so pertaining to the question you can give a person a reason to want change and be influential, but ultimately its there choice. if they don't want to they won't.

I totally agree with Erin. The girl can be a knockout, has all her stuff together in life, be the most loving creature God has made but if he isnt willing to change on his own, she will change before he will. Best thing for a woman to do is at least give a man the chance. If he refuses she has a right to make decisions that would then be in the best interest to her self and maybe her children.

The moment a woman tries to "make" me change will also be the moment she sees herself kicked to the curb. Lol. I have a simple lifestyle and don't plan to change it for anyone. I pretty much stay to myself and devote myself to my kids.

Well, singlefather, I was assuming she meant if the guy had a bad lifestyle or something lol I dunno though

No, that was to the OP. Was just answering the thread. Lol.