I also ignore it LOL

And I didn't mean that other comment in a bad way April...but there are a lot of women that think all guys are the same lol

I wasnt taking it the wrong way o_O

Better not lol... j\k

People directly try to.get me bend out of shape & it dont work, nothing you says gonna "offend" me or make me freak out lol to laid back for all that non sense

I hear ya, that's the only way to be..no sense in being mad all the time...Im pretty laid back too but every now n then I let somebody get to me

1) are u more likely to message a guy first or do u wait for them to message u?
I am not one for sending messages first, I find it awkward.


2) How are u gonna know if a guy is nice n someone u might be interested in if u don't answer when they do message n wont take the time to get to know em?
I will answer any message, being there is actually something worth answering.
for example, if all you say is HI, I will reply with Hi back. If you say nice pic, I'll thank you, if I haven't already gotten 12 right before it that say the something...basically, if you give me something worth commenting, I will converse with you.

Good answer mrb89

Depends, if there is a guy who is active on the forms and seems to be someone I could get along with, I might go ahead and message him but most of the my friends on here are people who have contacted me. I try to reply to most messages I get for the express reason that you *can* learn a lot about a person if you just give them a chance. :)

Thats the one thing i dont get why do the men always have 2 messege first lol