Ive recently started over in the dating world. Ive met alot of men on here some younger some older. My problem is how do you know whos being real and whos not.

To me its the people who take the time to know about you and that want you to know them and being sincere about it. Are real. Though i know its not easy to tell.

Go with ur gut. If he asks u about ur day, ur family, etc, then hes truely interested and is probably real. If he texts u reg jus to see what ur up to & say he misses u, hes probably real. Fake to me is someone not willing to make time for u, if ur not first, then i'd move on. But thts jus me :)

@brats52005: hi tried to contact you but restrictions stopped me! lol steve X :)

@christine47: it takes time to know the real from fake although conversation is one of the keys. If the conversation never becomes dull and boring as the time goes by then its a good sign. From the book of rainbowbutterfly's experience :)

It is hard to tell yes . And at time's guy may seem like the real ones are fake to because you might end up finding a shy one. As far as going with the gut i agree but sometimes it can be wrong to. And all and all you just got to do alot of hoping and praying that they are not playing

@Bbwpoohbear: spot on girl! In my heart I truly believe that in God's perfect timing, He'll answer our heart's genuine desires

@stevesanders try again just changed it. I was getting harrassed by some of the african people so i went for usa for awhile. Some of them dont know what friends mean. I am not discussing sex with them. But it makes me mad because i had to eliminate other people from other places as well that want friends. So i changed it back.