*waves at flowergrl and heikeva Hey yall. How are you doing?

@JustMeAndYou77: I'm. Good how are you ?

I'm not gonna condemn you because you did what you thought was right. As you get older you learn love is blind of race, size and sex.

That's good girl. Im doing fine, thanks.

well.... lol I just feel a full blown relationship is not natural. It bothers me even though I keep it to myself. Race and size seems different to me somehow.

[QUOTE=JustMeAndYou77;121468]*waves at flowergrl and heikeva Hey yall. How are you doing?Iam just peachy Lol my day off love it! ;)

[QUOTE=heikeva;121504] lol, good girl, Im glad :))

Let me ask you this: how does someone's sexual orientation, kin to you or nor, effect YOUR life in any way? It doesn't. It is THEIR life and decision.

It doesnt. I truly understand this galonely so I dont make it an issue. I dont. I just focus on loving her as my sis. It's just how I feel though. It's a little disappointing.

I respect everyone. It doesn't matter to me who you love, as long as you are happy. I went through a really tough family split when I was a teenager because my grandmother and a few other family members were upset with me for dating a black guy. It hurt me that grams couldn't accept him, even though I cared a lot about him. As time went on, things changed and my bf and I broke up. I never really forgave my grams for the things that she had said though. Of course I still loved her, nothing could ever change that, but I lost a bit of respect for her. I decided then and there that I would never treat people as anything other than human. After my mom came out of the closet, my grams had to do some soul searching. She had to decide of accepting her daughter was something she could do, otherwise she ran the risk of losing her. Now, It's obvious that my grandmother doesn't approve of my mama's lifestyle, but she accepts it. I think she learned her lesson from me, when she pushed me away because of my choice in men. My point is, after having been judged for who I loved, I could never inflict that kind of pain, or disappointment on another living soul. Love who you love, and be happy :)