Wheww yall are on a roll today. Good convo peeps, keep it up. Im gonna sit this one out, but i sure enjoy reading all ur comments. Yochoice, told ya the people on the forums were great and u'd have a blast....u jus wait, the party has jus started

@Briteeyes1211: yes it is

All the women ive dated only want money and sex. But they treat me and my son like crap.

Yes as we growth is part of every relationship. But to hold on to the past is not growing at all. We all go through good and bad thats what makes us, us. What people dont know or realize is that each experience is for a reason for growth of our characters to make us stronger.

@survivor08: I'm a good guy and i love kids. My son is my world.

From my experience through 5 years of marriage, some women have a good man and fail to see it. I am now going through a divorce due to certain things my wife has done, and she justifies all her actions by claiming it's because I was not a good husband. Now that I am divorcing her she is begging me to keep her around and be a family.

This is sad. My children come first if someone is to treat them like crap. They are definatly not worth your time. Because they would have to except him as well as you.

Thats because she wants her cake and eat it too. Nobody deserves that.

I personally think women and men both dont know a good person when they see it. Once u r with someone for a while their "goodness" fades and ur interest changes, so when u see something "new" their goodness shines. Its a matter of keeping things fresh, not dull. A good person gets taken advantage of, cuz their goodness is expected and tends to be overlooked by their lover when someone else can spot ur a great prson in the blink of an eye. I know good people when i see them, sometimes u have to look further then other people do to see it, but its always there.

Well, different people consider different kinds of men to be "good." There's also the fact that many women aren't attracted to the kind of relationship that would be best for them. I.e. bad boys who treat them poorly hold an allure but it's clearly an unhealthy relationship.