@Ulsterbabe: Ok please dont take this the wrong way now but i have 2 ask u a question!!! If u keep saying u wont put a pic up cuz u r so ugly and men wont contact u if they see u ....dont u think they read ur Thread and what u post bout urself?? Wouldnt that scare them off also u telling them how ugly u r and them not seeing a pic of u?? Just wondering bout that!!!! ;p-

@heikeva: its ok im not offended ur right I wish I never put that on here now!

I didnt read all of the threads but going off heikeva's post i am goin to say. If any woman sees herself n a negative way men are too. So be who and what u r and be comfortable in your own skin. And a man will find that to be attractive. @Ulsterbabe i mean no disrespect. But any decent man is goin to want a woman with self confidence could that be more of the issue then your looks.

@Ulsterbabe: don't worry about that part what's done is done... but build some confidence in yourself and when you are ready put the pic up.... like I said before if somebody doesn't wanna get to know you simply because of a picture then they want worth your time to begin with

@ heikeva how has your day been!!!

And most guys are not going to read everything u say so dont worry about that.

Lol....be real it all matters!! likes is just the start so it seems to matter more maybe..idk..

Well OP, as most pointed out how personality matter most it is also nice to have an image of you while admiring your personality. Besides this is virtual world, anybody can be anyone and we'd been fooled here once. By putting a profpic it would only not to guarante that your real but also will boost your chance :D

*who you are*

I can really appreciate the attitudes of the men in this post. You don't hear guys say things like that very often. It's refreshing.

Good example of how good men behave :D

Aww shucks y'all gonna make me blush lol...j/k thanks its nice to know people notice