I think 4ever was jus speaking his mind as well. To say a pic invites predators is a lil ridiculous to me to. As Ram said in another thread, a rape victim isnt a victim cuz she wears sexy clothes, shes a victim cuz the rapiest is a sick jerk, theres no explanation why people rape, abuse, are predators....

@Troublesum: you live up to your username now go be troublesum elsewhere

Dont listen to them Troublesum, u explained it perfectly in my eyes. Yes everyone needs to be cautious, but to blame a pic. I guess all these other people who were scammed and a victim by this same person, wasnt scammed by HER PIC?? Whats the signs to look for again to spot a predator?? Cuz ummmm, we all feel for it....Dan did u know Donna was a man? Did she make u a victim cuz of ur pic??

Lol is that all you can come up with seriously, do you think your the first one to use that line? now why would i go elsewhere when i can be amused by a clown here... when ya have something to add to this debate let me know but seems your just talking out ya rear at present

I hope that this predator/scammer/sick f*ck gets whats comming to him for the pain that he cuzed everyone and the games he played. I seriously hope he doesnt make bail and get gang rape by the biggest guys in jail. I for another am a victim of this sick deranged person but ultimately was not a sick as what he did to brite. So to all the scammers reading this if u dare to read this, karma will get u its just a matter of time. And just for the record if the justice system in the U.S. Is like is here in canada, its a farce to give ppl false hope.(in most areas of the law)personally i think he should be tried and convicted in a texas court where they have the death penality. Just my opinion.

@troublsum i owe you an apology. I was drinking myself. Sorry.

Plain and simple. Dan hs no right watsoever to make a thread saying THIS is why people get picked out. I bet you rght now if brite started awhole new account with same picture and all. She wouldent get picked again becase of her pick. She just happend to get a bad deal. @trublesum i agree with you 100% and could not have said it better myself.

@Troublesum: i think what you said was downright mean sure you have a point that its nearly imposible to use a pic to get a victum but you could have worded it better and in a way it can be used like if a dog is in your picture they can ask about it and pretend to be a dog lover from how you respond to what the person says and same goes for kids

Dan, I for one appreciate ur thread....and understand perfectly what u were trying to do....and if no one else has the balls to say it I will. Yea we were all fooled by this guy...but we didnt ALL give our address to the man and we didnt ALL get nearly as personal! This is the internet and we do have to be as safe as possible. I hve been rudely called stupid for posting my phone number, that CANNOT be traced to my address....I dont post pics of my land or my street just in case. If thier r STILL women that think it is safe to EVER give thier address even before a public meeting then threads such as this one will continue to be needed!

So u wouldnt trust Ram with ur address? Is that what ur saying?