I appreciate you trying to clarify Tony but I cld care less whether she pees standing up....I was commenting on the fact that she calls herself educated yet cant string afew sentences together without numerous misspellings....again I will reiterate, you post on a public forum dont expect everyone to agree with everything u say...geez, talk abt the need to grow up!

Folks, I think this is an example of the kind of posts other users keep complaining about where the more veteran regulars (e.g. the "Rat Pack") have unnecessarily ganged up and jumped on another, more recent member. A lot of you know my style by now, and you know I try to be as fair as possible to all my members and always insist on keeping things respectful and civil here in the Forums. Yet the OP -- who did absolutely nothing wrong in her opening post -- immediately gets hints that she's a man, has her spelling mistakes pointed out for everyone to see, and is told she's not actually educated and that her personality is crap. That goes completely contrary to the atmosphere I am trying to promote here in the Forums. Of course, her retort about "grandma's" was no better, but if I need to give her an infraction for the way she reacted to those attacks, then I need to give out a lot of infractions to a lot of other users in this thread as well. I don't like to give out infractions, in fact, it's a waste of my time that could be spent actually improving the site. So I'm asking everyone -- new and regular members alike -- to please respect our rules at all times so that I don't have to spend time moderating the Forums and can focus on improving the site for everyone. It couldn't be any simpler, if you don't have anything respectful to say to another member, then say nothing at all. If you have any doubts about a member, then either ask them respectfully or bring it to my attention. However, do not jump on other members who haven't violated any rules as it sends the wrong message about the type of community we're trying to build here at Dating.mobi. Thanks.

Thank you Andres :)

I did not write that post on behalf of anyone or for any particular users, so there is no need to thank me. I should add that the Forums wouldn't be what they are today if it weren't for the regular "Rat Pack" of members who have been here from the start, and participate day in and day out, and did the hard yards to get the Forums sparked up and to their current level of lively activity where they practically have a life of their own. People underestimate how difficult it is to get a Forum started, as it requires regular posts from people courageous enough to come out of their shell and who aren't afraid to speak their mind in the midst of an empty, desolate, and quiet new Forum, so I greatly appreciate their contributions here and have a lot of respect for them (as should everyone reading this). So although I don't take sides and try to treat all my users equally, I do know when to appreciate significant contributions to a lot of what is perhaps taken for granted today by newer users.

I wasn't trying to be rude :(

Who is the rat pak?

Hold on i'll tell ya

Well i guess iam one of the rats in the rat pack.....if thats what people call me ....us !!???

@heike U know ur name was on the list i gave lol wouldnt be the same without u

I wasn't being rude. I genuinely meant thanks for being fair. If it was misinterpreted then I apologise.