@VampDoll: vampdoll you are not fake; you should already realize that you always get that one jerk. Your a beautiful mother and shouldnt worry. Ive laughed everyday at the threads or comments and i personally would miss the laughter from you! Please dont go :(

I said it....ur posts remind me of someone that came on here pretending to b a young woman and turned out to be a sweaty ole pervert, without a verified pic u cld be him. this is the internet, even wth a verifid pic if someone is devious enuff they cld still b an imposter. I make no apologies for speculating that u are a lil fishy, if u are what u say, a nice young mum from England what do u care what I think?

I don't. And have put my picture on now. And yeah I made two threads about because I was curious if people actually liked me without having to do that first. Considering I've been nothing but honest, just wanted to make friends and a load of people have turned on me and been all whispering about my gender to each other. Its high school mean girls mentality. I said I was going to verify my picture, but when I was good and ready and now I feel I was made to do it to prove I wasn't a perverted old man. Its pathetic really. I've not done anything to any of you, I've been polite and not been horrible about anyone, and I most definitely haven't been pm-ing people trying to turn a load of people against each other. You're a bunch of grown women for feck sake. Hope all feel big and powerful and happy with ya sens now. Just cos one idiot fooled a lot of you. Its turned you in all into paranoid messes. Get a grip :)

Also I've read that banned persons posts, always talking about sex it seemed and kissing peoples backsides she thought were most popular here. I am absolutely nothing like that person thanks very much.

@VampDoll: I just saw your veri pic and looked ok to me.

Its an awful picture. I look fat and horrible and that's why I wanted to wait til I could take a nice one. I hate getting my picture taken anyways. I may come across as mouthy and loud but I have my insecurities like everyone else.

@VampDoll: Pathetic? so those of us with nothing to hide are pathetc becuz we willingly submitted our pics to be verified so that others wld b more willing to take us as who we are? Contrary to what u think, whether u were xxxdonna or not was nothing more than idle curiousity, certainly it was not important enuff to start a pm-ing campaign. This is the internet and if one is naive enuff to think that evryone on here is what they seem then i have no response for that.

I've done it women. Chill ya beans like. So if people thought you were 'a sweaty old pervert' thatd be ok with you. I had every intention of doing it, when I wanted too. I haven't got anything to hide and I saw how andres outed that donna person, who is nothing to do with me, and that person had various accounts. He found out a whole lot of details on that person who did turn out to be a man, names of pets and everything, and good for andres doing that. And if it came down to it I'd message andres and tell him all my details or he can find out like he did previous. I don't care if this is the internet or not. I'm going to stand up for myself no matter what and not let people all have their say and me sulk off quietly into a corner.

I don't get what really is your issue Kim . There's nothing personal here and HONESTY ??? In an online dating ? Heck .. Even in real life , honesty is difficult to determine , how much more virtually?!

IMHO, when I read someone is doubting somebody ( never trust completely ) , I'm happy because it means she/ he is not naive of how dangerous online dating is...

You must not get offended or hurt or whatever ...

I wouldn't normally get this wound up but basically ladawn has said I am this donna dude and referred to me as a maybe dirty old pervert. And I don't care how long she has been a member. I had let this drop and uploaded a picture.
How can this not feel personnel. Its a load of people doubting me as person. I was naïve to think I was just making a load of awesome new friends here, and now I feel like a fool for discussing my life so openly. Well like I said more fool me. I won't be letting that happen again.
Now let's see if my photo gets rejected because I've put on weight since my profile picture was taken. I know how it works, it can still be rejected by other people not thinking it adds up. And how do I know people won't just do that anyways. I gave out my facebook info, since been told that's not allowed, not for people to add me or even message me cos I'll ignore that but to see that another picture of me exsists.
I can't apologise for getting my knickers in such a twist over this. Yesterday people were being nice to me, today its all different.
Need a large drink now.
Hopefully my picture will be verified soon and then me and everyone else can drop this and move on :)