My ex fiancee turned 49 a few weeks ago. I initiated the contact. It wasn't that she was older it was that she just felt right. My youngest girlfriend was half my age. In my case it comes down to if there's a connection. Age and race don't matter. I learned from every girlfriend and lover I ever had.

@BigPapaRedneck: Im taliing about older women who think being with a younger guy makes them "regain their youth".....ones that strictly go for some twenty something when theyre 40+.....That is sad.

@WalkSoftly: So what you're saying is that there's a huge difference between 13 years and 20? Lisa was a teenager when I was born. She was my age now when we met almost 14 years ago.

@BigPapaRedneck: I have no idea how your post relates to my previous one.....so let me clear it up as best I can....Women who are 40+ who STRICTLY date 20 something y/o men to pump up their ego are sad. If a person in their 40s ends up with someone 25 or so, and it isnt based on one or the other looking for a certain aged suitor, thats different.
And to say age doesnt matter isnt quite true either. I cldnt see myself staying with someone 22. In 10 years, Id be 58 and she"d be 32....there are some issues Id feel wrong abt making her deal with. But hey, thats just me.

There was a 17 year diffeance and he family called me a yankee **** was very irra ting lol

That was not right!

@Wolf1966: to me age is just a number

@sweeterthejuic3: yes i have but i told my family to but out it was my choice n my life.

Interesting!

Jmo but dating some1 my childrens age or parents age is kinda creepy. It makes me question what a 35y see in a 18y.. Sorry but "perv alert goes off!" lol!