@James2112: Go f*ck yourself James...and yes, that was a public insult. U don't know the whole story, so don't preach internet safety til u do.

And james we got to know this person as donna. He acted like a frigging woman for gods sake. Had great advice. Went after supafreak for da boss. And we all were talking to him in our message box. So tell me you dont learn a few lessons about people in forums or how they think. I guess i got lucky then cuz daren is a great guy. My friends like him and he knows where i live. And he talks or texts me every day. This is unfortunate. But caution is one thing but this horses rear knew what the frig he was doing and knew how to talk to people. So how loing can you take caution to a year or two.

@Briteeyes1211: brite i see we are not getting along here and that's probably my fault. I didn't mean any offense by what I said. I'm a very out spoken and blunt person and in my eyes I was giving advise not insulting. If you choose to take it that way is up to you but all I was trying to say is that you have to use some caution on the internet or u run into these kind of ppl. I am glad you are safe and he's arrested but I'm not gonna sugar coat it by saying that this couldn't have been avoided.

I agree. U DO NOT know the whole story, u dont know how long i knew him, how he came about getting my address, or anything of the sort. I am also on facebook, guess if i get stalked from there its my fault too huh!! And yes, i did take it as an insult, im an intelligent woman that has been abused by a mental case...ITS NOT MY FAULT I DONT CARE WHAT KINDA INFO I GAVE HIM OR DIDNT GIVE HIM. This site shows my city, small town, people talk....hell if id given it to him or not, he could of found me if he wanted to. Same with me finding him. Its not difficult

I see. Well I'm not sorry for giving my opinion. I am sorry I didn't phrase it better tho because what I've been accused of is not what I meant at all. I'd like to apologize for all the misunderstanding (which is my fault) I'm not the best with words sometimes and tend to over explain things. And ram that was fairly immature if you were actually trying to prove a point it would have been better to explain the situation to me rather than try to insult. To all of you I apologize for this mess I've made by trying to help.

@James2112: Your a 22. Y/o guy from Cedar Hills Tx and u go to college. That's all the info I need to find u if I really wanted to. So ur not as smart as u think u are. There is a time and a place to analyze the situation...and the day she had to go to the police station and confront this *sshole AINT IT!

And like brats said WE ALL TRUSTED HIM AS DONNA. I jus happen to of knew the real man also, im sure theres ppl on here that TRUSTED Donna jus as i trusted him. And Thanks Brats and Ram, appreciate ur input there, i had to take sum deep breaths b4 i replied.

@James2112: I agree with you. I feel sorry this has happened-this dude is a complete creep, but telling people to be cautious because crazy people are out here makes perfect sense to me. I don't feel like you're attacking anyone or saying its brite's fault.

As I said I made a mess of this. Ram you're right I judged badly on my timing. I guess I've appeared pretty insensitive. I didn't mean to be. I actually meant to help. @Brite: I do hope u accept my apology. I made a mess of a situation I thought I knew enough about. I really didn't mean to insult you. I'm not the best in these situations it seems. I would like to apologize for this whole mess here in the forums. And I apologize for accidentally insulting you.

Its ok brite relax a little. Its been a rough day for you. And what i see you got it triple and dont deserve it. James ram is right wrong day to put this stuff down. She was just putting a warning down cause she learned a hard lesson and dont need to deal with this crap.