A Wink is as good as a Nod to a Blind Mule... But I wink 1st because sometimes after I write a message to a girl, I get a message from this site saying I can't send it to her. So if the wink goes through then I know I can write a message to her. Saves time & effort for me.

Wink first and then send a message lol

@Rockhard2: true

A wink by itself is lazy.

I wink first to let the person know that i am interested then i message them to introduce myself

It doesn't matter what order you do it in. The person will probably immediately look at your profile and decide if they want to respond either way.

Also, don't make your first message this:
"hey would you mind sending me pictures of your feet to jack off to? I really like black feet and want to exchange pics"

@sweeterthejuice: Always keep one of these handy to send em!

Ugh! Or how bout 'Hey babe-I think youre hot' First message to me from guy-AND-he was young enough to be my baby...how do guys think we are supposed to respond to these statements? lol! Or just 'Hi'...like Im left to start a conversation when he messaged me..? I just say 'Hello'...um....nice day today:) Did you reply to your foot guy? lol!

@WalkSoftly: ewwwwwwwww!

@WalkSoftly: lmao