I am so glad that some one feels this way, besides me. I HATE having to try to decipher txt lingo (or just really poor language). If you type like you're just banging your head around on the keyboard, I'm out.

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i know whats being said cuz when i message girls i get nothing back theres one for sure on here i know is right for me but she seems scared cuz im up front and i dont lie she knows who im mean and if she could only find in her heart to see im the one for her. But idk what shes thinking or how she presues me i just hope she sees that i want her and no one else

@Ram: As*hat :)

Ok people, thanks for sharing all your opinions. Britteyes, the only standard i have, as far as being "to picky" is that i want a girl that isn't big. A girl could have a less than pretty face, and as long as she isn't fat, i'd give her a try. This is my standard not because i am shallow and i find it unattractive, but because that tells me they have no regard to their own health. I don't want a girl that's going to die from cardiac arrest, or one that cannot take care of herself. I'd say that is understandable, and fair. About the texting thing. Where did that come from? I agree totally. Sometimes though it is hard to think of what to say, or what to ask a girl when you are trying to think of something that won't scare her off. I don't want to seem boring, i don't want to seem cheesy, i don't want to seem clingy, i don't want to come off as a creep, i don't want to seem irresponsible, none of that. With trying to avoid all that, how many questions can you think of i could ask that i could use next time? And i can understand the "unreal" thing. But the fact is that when people think like that, people like me finish last because no one even lets me prove myself, and automatically assume that i am just putting on a front, which is not the case. That is fine though, because obviously those people that think that way have trust issues, which is no good for a relationship anyway. So, thanks again for everyone's opinion. If anyone has anything else to say, please don't hesitate.

Just give it time. Youll find the right girl eventually. Maybe you arent looking in the right places.

@Briteeyes1211: what did i say to you, or put on my profile so i know to fix it that would give you that assumption?

Idk mate but maybe its because of your vanity and your serious and judgemental attitude that scares some women off ? I mean you started off this thread with your first words being do you think im handsome . for christs sake . as if it really matters . It might get you a second look in real life being handsome but as soon as most girls find out that you . for want of a better word and not directly aimed at you . Are a k.n.o.b head then they will run a mile . Heres a bit of advice mate just make a girl laugh and have fun and then thats more than half your battle won :)

@Thedub: i get it thanks dub.

first off i think your hot but it also looks kinda fake and some girls probably think the same lol. as for personality i dont know never talked to you before