@Rainbowbutterfly: Nov 11

@Vicky9595: No disrespect but do ya mind not callin me dear. Comin from a guy that doesnt sound right.

Don't give up matey. I genuinely wasn't wanting a relationship, well not for a long while but it snuck up on me just last night and sparks flew. Its a cliché but it does happen when you're not looking :)x

I dont want to get yelled at but i want to ask u to do some thing. Would u look at ur threads and posts and try and find five happy and interesting things u shared to attract female attention? Maybe its not the site but how we use it? I mean no harm i really mean well.

@VampDoll: You're a very lovely young lady. I congratulate you and your guy. Im not gettin any younger. Most of the women on here are too young for a guy my age.

@Acire73: I agree with u Erica and i told u that b4 Ray just trying 2 help u out we mean well if we say that!!!

@Acire73: No offense taken. Everyone has the right to speak. Its a public forum.

@heikeva: I know. Ya'll are nice ladies I have no doubts about any advice you've given me.

Have you tried your luck with any other dating sites?? Have you searched on here for 30 plus aged women. You're never too old to find love. But sounding so defeatist won't draw anyone to you. Do fun threads, asking people what their interests and hobbies are? You may just get a conversation out of one of them. Have you tried meeting women in off line world, speed dating, singles nights, if you own a dog, go walking in popular areas. You're a kind person, doesn't matter what age you are, I'm pretty sure you'll find Ms Right :)

I even tried to message you but cant because of your contact restrictions :(