I think misconception is a major problem and sometimes throwing general statements as well but it's good to know that you are here to represent South Africa and educate us more about the differences . This is one of the positive aspects of a global forum where learning is FREE

I noticed when i looked under the "no love" heading in search that most of the women on there are from South Africa. I have no explanation for it, sorry i can't help.

You've always seemed like a genuinely nice lady to me. Where ya live dont change my opinion of ya.

Hi Rainbow :)

There you go Lola :) ... Are you from South Africa as well right? ( I saw once you updated your location :)) but you can correct me if I'm wrong :)

Yes Rainbowbutterfly I am from South Africa my birth country. Currently I am in Thailand been here almost 2yrs visiting my Daughter and Grandchildren.I am a part of the Rainbow Nation in South Africa.

All I know about South Africa is what I learned from watching Leathal Weapon II, and another thing I learned from that movie is that ''they always F*ck you at the drive-thru!'' :-)

Hi Lola nice ta meet ya. I'm a Capetonian too. Just moved up north, as most Kaapernaars tend to do. Lol.

Thanks George... Reason most of us don't have love is from my observation, most men this side prefer," the shape of something made of glass all frothy once opened and bitter to the taste", to that of a soft touch filled with unconditional love. Lol. Just my observation, hence trying international waters!!! Will see how that's goes. Lol

Thanks Ray for the kind words.