@alynn: Oh I forgot...here's your apple Ms.Alynn :-D

Why, thank you. :) *kids chant in background 'Teacher's pet! Teacher's pet! Teeeeacher's pet! Farahaha'* Now settle down children and stop being playa haters....Mr. Ram, meet me after class. ;)

Integrity in all things. Kindness wisdom. Knowing who you are.

An adams apple.

A lil thing that hangs between their legs.... sumone had to say it! ;^)~~

To me a man is hard working, understanding, dependable, honest, respectful, someone that provides for his family, does what he needs to do to protect his family, a man acknowledges a woman's acheivements and accepts her flaws, he encourages her to be the best she can be, he teaches his kids morals in life, he never walks away, and he never makes his woman feel as tho she is anything less then the best.

ok. First of do have any idea what a guy has to do to be that kind of man? He has to be the best of the best. To me a man is always on a quest. Man are many things. Man love.

Well said if the question were "What makes a GOOD man?" ... but we're not living in a perfect world. "What makes a person?" is a better question than "What makes a man?" for really, it is ONLY (a) that thing dangling between his legs and (b) the XY chromosome thing. Nothing more.

Hmmmm, I agree with the scientific stuff first but as for the social reasoning, I think what makes a man a man is his ability to have a clear, restoring thinking mind, protects or at least watches out and alerts (hell, he doesnt have to be a superhero), knows and understands the value of work, desires a woman, and can be a father figure to all children, even if he sees a child alone in a store.