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Hell no!!!! (by VampDoll)
The only simple thing you can do to virtually " slap "
those who sent you messages telling you are a DUDE is to verify your pic .
Besides , why will you get offended when you know you are a woman ?
If anyone thinks of me as a butterfly , I'm happy because it means they exercise CAUTION :)

Besides , why will you get offended when you know you are a woman ?
If anyone thinks of me as a butterfly , I'm happy because it means they exercise CAUTION :)
I'm not offended more hurt. I got an inbox saying 'talk on the town is you're a dude' meaning a few people are saying/thinking it. I need to learn not to be so open to strangers.
Why are you hurt? ! There's nothing to get hurt actually :). Why not make a solution and isn't it you decided to verify your pic tonight? ( I read your thread earlier )...
Yep will be done in the next hour or two. I'm just hoping people are not going to still say I'm a fake and not verify it. I wouldn't even mind if it got to the point andres had to investigate me. I've got nothing to hide. And I'm only human, a lot of things don't bother me. But sorry this has. Least I'm being honest about it. I'm p*i*s*s*e*d off and hurt.
All I wanna know is who has been saying it so when my picture is verified I don't have to speak to them. Yeah it is drama, the paranoid two faced people who have been saying I'm a fricken man, yet haven't got the balls(no pun intended)to message me or talk to me about it. But I'm starting to get a picture of some of the people now anyways.
I think people are still sensitive over this incident two months ago.
By the way, I think I saw you mention elsewhere that you wanted to wait to verify your pic until you looked "better", but keep in mind that there is no need for that since only a very small handful of people are going to see your verification pic. We specifically mention that on the verification page, so if you want to prove everyone wrong, there is no need to wait, just like there's no need to delete your account over this. :)
By the way, I think I saw you mention elsewhere that you wanted to wait to verify your pic until you looked "better", but keep in mind that there is no need for that since only a very small handful of people are going to see your verification pic. We specifically mention that on the verification page, so if you want to prove everyone wrong, there is no need to wait, just like there's no need to delete your account over this. :)
Thanks andres. I'm going to very soon because I don't want to delete. I really like this site.
:) Just a bit of constructive criticism if I may Kim. I personally don't care what your gender is. But, I don't remember this whole thing being an issue (on the forum,anyway) until u made 2 threads abt it yesterday. Is is that big of a deal? Not to me, but turn the tables for a minute. If someone else was doing the same thing, wudnt it peak ur curiousity a tad bit?
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