because you also have to be attracted to the person. Say a little chemistry. Say i look at two guys that are similar in theese has these same and more attributes. The one i feel a connection with is the guy im going with wheather he looks like frankenstein and the other brad pitt.. Looking in someones eye as you talk gives you the knowledge of yes or no. Texting and calling its just words.

Great sense of humour
Honest and loyal
Completely random and mad