Well they are all my personnel turn offs and not liking children is a major one, along side an aggressive person. I never introduce any guy to my son because I never do. If I'd been with someone 6 months to a year and depending on how well we've got on then I'd think about letting them meet my lil munchkin head. My son has a father and he doesn't need to have any other male figures in his life, unless I'm really sure that person will be around for us a long time.

very very true.

I don't like any of them lol, but I can tolerate some depending on the situation. For example, if he doesn't tidy up after himself because he's too busy/always working. Or if he's tight fisted with money because he's saving up to buy a house or some other sensible goal. And I can deal with taking himself too seriously, because I feel like my personality is enough to bring out his carefree side. :D

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I've been out with someone who was so serious and watched every penny and he was a lovely guy don't get me wrong, but because of my personality we didn't mesh well. I'm so impulsive, I don't have much money but I'd spend it on the moment. I do part time volunteer work in a charity shop, and I will get a paid job eventually. But I don't save, and I don't want people moaning at me because one night I wanted to buy some wine and chocolate. I'm really hyper and need to be with someone as playful me and not be all stiff and serious :)

Wud drama be under 'takes themselves to seriously'? I can't STAND drama! Had an ex that wud ruin a good day jus to start a fight. Geez.....I'm a pretty easy goin guy and can wk thru most anything else, but when the spotlight had to be pointed at "You" 24/7. I'm out.

Maybe it could fall slightly under aggression because with drama comes arguments and sometimes fighting. That's just ridiculous to have a relationship yet turn it into a war!

This thread is intresting to me, for personal reasons, i picked the drugs, as i have never touched them and never will

Well I've done some in the past but that was years ago and I'd never go there again. Plus I've been in relationships with a guy who smoked too much pot, and another guy who was on heroin. Both disasters and I'd never go there again. Its not worth it. I can't even be close mates with someone on drugs because it reminds me of things in my past I'd rather forget.

Yeah my ex smoked pot too. He wasn't like a lazy, no good, do nothing stoner lol. He was a Bob Marley type - dreads and all lol. :) Great guy, smart, passionate, loyal, but that pot would cause him to lose a lot of his motivation, and make him do things he wouldn't normally do. Don't think I'd ever want to date someone using any type of drugs.