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Friends with benefits? (by JLaDawn)
(50 / M-F / New Jersey)I had a couple and the ladies in question were all about the benefits and not so much about the friendship. :/
@bigblue727272: I guess because for some "friendship" is just a bridge to get some benefits . Without getting any benefits, i doubt if friendship will establish since there is an ulterior motives... I dont know, i find it very strange though ....
* no offense to those who engage in fwb , just a butterfly thought *
* no offense to those who engage in fwb , just a butterfly thought *
From my own experience it starts as FWB but as time goes by one of u develops feelings for the other and they end up getting hurt...it is best left to those with icebox for hearts
I ended up marring my last fwb. If u are connecting emotionaly and physically theres no way not to become emotionaly attached. And one thing ive learned one thing from my past it is you should sleep with your bestfriend but they should be way more then a fwb.
Haha...that sounds fun..."frends wd benefits"...meaning to say ur getting the advantages of what other lovers are doing..but then its just that...frends..nomore no less....lol
@JLaDawn: That stuff never works... Because sex complicates things... They and your self both will find something about one another that you are attracted to durring sex and it becomes that which you come to obsess over... Thier touch becomes something you crave, thier eyes meeting your eyes is going to cause an unstoppable urge... So yeah complicated and still yet more intricate...
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