no,no, do not apologize to me. You haven't done a thing. I should have said more than I did. My apologies. The withdrawing of affection is a good indication that he is contemplating an end at minimum. But, I should also caution you that some of what you have posted here could also be symptoms of depression. It would be difficult to give sound advice knowing so little of the situation. Best of luck to you.

ty so much