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People give up too easy!! (by simpleman75)
@Briteeyes: Yes,I like that,very well put. If they show no interest then you wonder later ,why bother anymore. Like trying to talk to a wall with no response.lol
@ATLANTASCORPIO: im not talking about if it's been years and still nothing has changed, u should give up n move on....all I meant was just because u have a disagreement or have a bad day that shouldn't be a reason to give up on a relationship especially if the other person is trying to make it work
I think some of ya misunderstood what I meant...if you've been trying forever and not getting anything in return then by all means, give up n walk away...all im saying is don't let one argument or let someone else's bs keep u from trying to make it work...dont waste ur life, but don't walk away so easy either
on a more serious note..... i get what youre sayin. the issue most the time is selfishness and instant gratification. in todays world, we see far too much divorce, infidelity, and lazyiness. its much easier to destroy a family youve created just because youre sexually attracted to another, than it is to swallow your wants for the benefit of your family.my ex cheated and anihalated my family simply because she wanted to have sex with someone else she was attracted too. i was attracted to other women.... however i loved my ex enough to be faithful. now she wants to be fwbs cause nobody wants her now.
ur so right brother, most people are too selfish to think about others...sorry u had to go through all that bullshi t with ur ex...thats usually the way it goes tho, they don't want u until its gotten to the point where people see their true colors and no one wants them anymore..and to do something like that to her kids is not only selfish, its down right sorry brother
its even worse in my case since the break up left me jobless and nowhere to go but the streets. actually i was in a motel for two months untill she got me fired from another part time job i had. then after spending a week or two laying my head on the cement under a bridge, she begged me to come home. it seemed her boyfriend dumped her and she was desperate. i came back for my kids sake and am reminded daily of that horrible time. but im strong. my kids need thier daddy. recovering has taken over a year and im still trying to pull out of this mess. i honestly dont know where my strength comes from, but i wont be beaten into submission. i will not give up.
like u said brother, ur kids need u...im sure that's what keeps u from giving up...ur a hell of a man, most guys would walk away regardless of if their kids needed them or not
(37 / F-M / Philippines)Excuse me,,Not all people gev up easy,,,
im belong to that people u mention,,but in my part i assure u,,i can't gev up so easily,,i have lots of patient in my body,,.can't gev up in just small conversation..,,if i really love that man,,what i wanted from him s a clear explanation...so all unclear stuff will be solve right away..not to run away,,,
im belong to that people u mention,,but in my part i assure u,,i can't gev up so easily,,i have lots of patient in my body,,.can't gev up in just small conversation..,,if i really love that man,,what i wanted from him s a clear explanation...so all unclear stuff will be solve right away..not to run away,,,
Last edited by ennaoJ25; 5-Jan-13 3:54 pm.
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