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:(( ok im qoin to hunq myself after this post (by babyjaja)
Yeah wow.... if she's on facebook somebody message any of her friends to stop her from harming herself.
Yea someone definitely needs to alert friends family possible local authorities
so..wait she says shes gonna suicide and it takes this long for ppl to say not to? Wow. Yal r um..some "compassionate" mu fukkas yu know that?
@LovelySummeRayne: The sad thing is Rayne, most of us here can't do anything about it. (I don't know the girl) So even if we wanted to, we couldn't stop her.
Also I don't think she will seriously do it, because most who call someone, tell someone, won't do it. They want help, and that's an indirect way of seeking it. As I've known a few who attempted it, and if it hadn't happened to be a relative coming home from work early, etc.. They'd be dead today. Those who will do, do it. It's like a mechnaism in them to say don't do it, by telling someone.
NOW, saying that. I really hope she doesn't, suicide I've thought about, if it wasn't for a friend, I probably would have attempted it. Now, I wouldn't no matter how depressed or bipolar I get. I'm not religious, I'm not spiritual or anything but life IS to precious to give it up so easily, and so young. Nothing is bad enough to commit suicide, I learned that years ago myself.
Also I don't think she will seriously do it, because most who call someone, tell someone, won't do it. They want help, and that's an indirect way of seeking it. As I've known a few who attempted it, and if it hadn't happened to be a relative coming home from work early, etc.. They'd be dead today. Those who will do, do it. It's like a mechnaism in them to say don't do it, by telling someone.
NOW, saying that. I really hope she doesn't, suicide I've thought about, if it wasn't for a friend, I probably would have attempted it. Now, I wouldn't no matter how depressed or bipolar I get. I'm not religious, I'm not spiritual or anything but life IS to precious to give it up so easily, and so young. Nothing is bad enough to commit suicide, I learned that years ago myself.
@anonymous123 that wasnt directed at you, or MELANCON. Yal did what u could. Also i know quite a bit about the human psyche, behavioral mechanisms, and cries for attention. Also suicides. And your correct in that -most- ppl who tell others about it dont actually follow through. But one of my ex's told ppl and then did follow up with it. So its really more of a rule of thumb than a fast and hard law. Besides that if it was a cry for attention then -why did she log off-? Ppl needing attention wouldv stayed on b!tching about how depressed they are, and how hard their life is and bs like that. She did not.. Kinda worried..
@LovelySummeRayne: I agree, nothing in this world is certain. So it's just a rule of thumb, as you said.
Maybe some of the ones here, have her number, or such and she wanted only those to talk to? There could be reasons to log off, or such, I agree, either way. Even if she was on here bitching about it, I'd be worried. I always say I feel like a bit of an empath, and pain in people bother me just as much as them -most- of the time.
No one should commit suicide, and not saying it was directed to me Rayne, just was generalizing that to a degree. That and I am watching this to see if anyone finds out. Don't know the girl, probably won't, but don't wanna see bad befall anyone.
Maybe some of the ones here, have her number, or such and she wanted only those to talk to? There could be reasons to log off, or such, I agree, either way. Even if she was on here bitching about it, I'd be worried. I always say I feel like a bit of an empath, and pain in people bother me just as much as them -most- of the time.
No one should commit suicide, and not saying it was directed to me Rayne, just was generalizing that to a degree. That and I am watching this to see if anyone finds out. Don't know the girl, probably won't, but don't wanna see bad befall anyone.
yea. -sigh- pm me if im wrong about the situation. Rarely am with these things, but this time i kinda hope i am.
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