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Dont know where to begin.... (by Erika04)

 Erika04 
12-Dec-12 5:54 am
@OnlyTrueRomeoCowboy: ya thats true

 

 

 
 
 JustMeAndYou77 (17)   (47 / F-M / Florida)
12-Dec-12 8:05 am
Ok so i just found out when i was about 15 that my dad(my moms husband)isnt my biological father but he is all i have knwn as my dad since i was 3 months old. All i know about my "sperm donor" is his first n last name nd tht he has 6 kids (including me). I want to find and maybe build a relationship with my other sibilings but not my "sperm donor"....Has any1 been in this situation before and know what i could do or where to begin? :/
Hello Erika :) Have you asked your mom if she knows maybe other ways of making contact. Since she already has had experience with your real dad and knows about all of this, she may be the person who can direct you to others in or outside the family to help. She may be able to pave a better path for you!

 

 

 
 
 butterfly6577 
12-Dec-12 2:05 pm
You could find him just to ask him about ur siblings. You can find anyone with just their name on switchboard.com.

 

 

 
 
 Erika04 
12-Dec-12 3:42 pm
@JustMeAndYou77: yes we have talked about it and i found his sister on facebook and tried to contact her about 1 1/2 yrs ago n nothing back so i tried again last night

 

 

 
 
 Erika04 
12-Dec-12 3:44 pm
@butterfly6577: thank u ill look there... I still dont know how i feel about seeing him..

 

 

 
 
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