I dont believe in keeping children from them father unless abuse is involved. My ex and i shared custody, he got her every wkend, came to school functions, b-day parties, etc. We had our arguements but our daughter was #1 in both our lives, not jus mine. I appreciated all the help i recieved from him, keeping him from her would of hurt him, her, as well as myself

Good stuff, super parents rule!

My ex was Bi-Polar she refused to get help when we were together. After the breakup she wouldn't let me see my kids for nearly a year. Worst time of my life.

This is bull im sorry im goin tru it with my babys father right now an he is saying im using melody aganst him no thats n his own little messed up mind im not using her against him im making a better home for her he abused me n front of her an really didnt wsnt nothing to do w her till i left he will maybe send 20 a month witch helps with NOTHING...an then asks me if it coved everything..... So im asking u was i wrong no an if u think i was thats wrong im not gonna let him abuse me or her or let her see it thinking its ok..... signed - p**sed of mommy

I don't really have the chance 2 do any of that bs w my son's father bc he's locked but i deal w/ his mother in his mother instead. We don't have too many problems n i'd like 2 hope that i would b the same w him. But when he gets out i am giving him the option of either paying child support or remove the court order of me moving out of state. I think that's only fair; if he's gonna make me stay in this expensive a** state he's gonna have 2 pay. I have a friend waiting 4 me 2 move in in nc.