@Briteeyes1211: good question i wondered too lol

@Ram318: Wrong, wrong, wrong. I send out winks just to let that person know that I find them interesting and hope they read my profile and see if we have something in commen. If they wink back i'll send them a message just to be nice. To say hello. I think its rude not to at least respond back to someone.

Not to sound rude but theres noway i or i believe alot of these girls can respond to ALL winks or messages. Im a polite person, and am kind hearted to everyone, but i have to pick and choose. Not trying to be rude and not reply but im 37 so having an 18 yr old that wants to text is a lil wierd, u know. I dont want to waste his time nor mine. But thats jus me. Thanks again for all ur replys, i appreciate hearing all ur views on this matter.

@Rockhard2: I said they're r certain types of guys that do do that. Didn't imply that ALL guys did. This isn't the "Why does @Rockhard2 wink" thread

Let me jump in quickly to point out that several relationships here have started with just a Wink, so you never know:

• angiev1984
• Daniel83
• docguerrero
• Farmbuilder
• lizzie21
• mexiawatson
• Philbill
• riderstorm24
• Shan02
• Shortyblue
• southernbeauty2011
• vbar

Don't be too quick to dismiss those Winks!

I jus got a wink from 2 of those ppl a few days ago, less then 3 days ago, hows that!? Anyway, thanks :)

@Andes its 12:45 am and i jus got a chat request from a guy listed above...so what kind of relationship did they develop with a wink? Im jus asking is it possible for two ppl to have the same name or something, cuz ummm....i dont think this person is in a relationship, im jus sayin

Remember, prior to launching the Forums last month, we permitted usernames to be reused after someone deleted their account. Of the list above, I see that the only username above being used today is "Farmbuilder" who joined in January when usernames were still reusable, so I assume you mean him. That's a pretty generic username, so I wouldn't be surprised if it's a different person. On the other hand, if it's indeed the same person, then I can only surmise that it did not work out with his partner and he's back to give it another shot. Maybe ask him?

The reason we no longer allow usernames to be reused is because it would make a mess of the Forums. Imagine you had 1,000 posts spread across the Forums and deleted your account. Then someone else came and reused your username. All of a sudden, that person would have 1,000 posts to their name that they never wrote, which would confuse the hell out of everyone. So the simple solution was to no longer allow usernames to be reused. Take your case, for example. You can still check all your old posts from your original account here.

I met my boyfriend from a wink .i sent him a wink we started talkin we r both madly in love wit each other i couldnt ask for a better boyfriend ..im head over hills in love .so from experince a wink can start sumthin amazing =;) im so happppyy

Women send winks too. just seems that women are more arrogant than men.