i believe in attraction at first sight it takes time for me to love someone

Hi yall, this is an interesting thread April.... I will have to agree though that I dont believe in love at first sight. I believe in lust, crushes, infactuations, and attraction at first sight. All the things that stir deep in me to want to take the time and pursue something with that person. I believe that love is like a new flower. It doesnt just happen. It's like a seed that has to be planted, watered, nurtured, fed, tended to. Then, it will begin to grow. The more everything is done and time is given, the stronger and healthier it usually becomes.

I was the same, we met when i was only 13 and i knew he wld be the only man i wld ever marry and 10 yrs later i did. We r nolonger married but still very close.

attraction yes lust yes but not love. just cause it worked out after the inital attraction that made your heart flutter did not make it love at first site