Ill be the first to admit when it comes to paitence i have not got a lot very little in fact but i try...this has always been a huge factor i either get tired of waiting. or i don't entertain anything that requires a lot of it.....although i find myself today with great careing for someone and now in a situation where paitents is a main factor in our relationship and there is the challenge. stareing me in the face...... oh Lord why haven't i conquered this paitence thing sometimes i wonder if it is fear rather than a paitence issue....any suggestions would be great...!!!

I tell my friends to have patience all the time, that it will happen whem it happens, but i myself do not have patience and i have screwed up acouple of good friendship/relationships over it....so you got to ask yourself if you truely believe its worth the wait then patience is what you need

@xlace75x: i do believe its worth having paitence but why is it so hard to build paitence because Lord know how much effort i put into it and its still a small amount i have i want to kick myself in the ass sometimes...ugh..!!

Patience is nothing but the acceptance of what you cant change at the current moment.

@truehrt4u: believe me i know, i am still kicking myself over one friendship i ruined...you just gotta breath thru it...its crazy i can give the advice but actually doing it myself is a different story...when i start getting close to some one, its like something inside freaks out and idk why, i fear i will loose this person and thats when i loose my patience, i have trust issues and that makes it hard smh..then i push the person away or drive them crazy and they walk

@WalkSoftly: God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change
the courage to change the things i can
and the wisdom to know the difference



THE SERENITY PRAYER ....."THANKS WALKS"

@xlace75x: sounds very familiar...:-((
Thanks for the advice..:-))

no problem hope it helps....i have that serenity prayer on my wall lol i havent said it in awhile :(

no problem hope it helps....i have that serenity prayer on my wall lol i havent said it in awhile :([/QUOTE] got it on my wall too...lol

My one through nine year NA coins have that prayer