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Why dont ppl date others with disablities (by Jessica1989)

 Jessica1989 (1)    (35 / F-MF / Virginia)
11-Jul-12 1:00 pm
I been different my entire life i always though ppl didnt ask me out because i was so " out there," you know happy, act lije a kid all the time n want to have fun , but as i got older i realized its because of how i look and my disability. Why do ppl feel the need to reject me just because im dwarf n have 6 finders??

 

 

 
 
 tractorjohn 
11-Jul-12 1:17 pm
@Jessica1989: I think it's because most people do not accept "Being Different" very well. Most people will see somebody who is different and they will either feel sorry or make fun of the different person. When in reality being different is what most people claim they are, even though they are Normal. I'm sure you've heard people tell you that they are different but that's normal, we all are different in many ways... Edit: I don't know if I answered your question or not, but hope it helps you a little anyway.

 

 



Last edited by tractorjohn; 11-Jul-12 1:24 pm.
 
 
 Jimmylee 
11-Jul-12 1:23 pm
@Jessica1989: sum ppl r *******s i ask sumone out if i think we will have fun together

 

 

 
 
 james85 
11-Jul-12 1:26 pm
@Jessica1989:
I think it's because most people do not accept "Being Different" very
well. Most people will see somebody who is different and they will
either feel sorry or make fun of the different person. When in reality
being different is what most people claim they are, even though they are
Normal. I'm sure you've heard people tell you that they are different
but that's normal, we all are different in many ways...
this is such a great point. Its your personality that counts at least to me, do not give up.

 

 

 
 
 loveembignsexy (15)    (45 / F-M / Indiana)
11-Jul-12 1:38 pm
Its got a lot to do with ppl not being able to look passed what society will think. for fear of what others will think of them they deny themselves to see the beautiful person u r inside. my oldest son has a prosthetic leg and is a linebacker on his hs football team and a very handsome boy....buy gfs just dont stay. i dont think theyre strong enough to deal with his being "different" even tho he is the sweetest and most loving boy they could ever meet. one day u will find someone who isnt such a fool and who will see u as a beautiful sexy lil box of fun....some ppl r just too naive.

 

 

 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
11-Jul-12 2:17 pm
Nick vujicic is an Australian guy born with no limbs . Instead of inspiring him , he inspires the world , he is a motivational speaker across the globe and is now happily married.

In reality , our naked eyes are truly judgmental but by opening our hearts we wil see the beauty that glows to each one of us ...

Be proud of who you are , no one is perfect in this world
. All of us have our own imperfection(s) so don't mind nor get affected wih their words or actions .

At the end of the day , we are all equal in the eyes of God ..


 

 

 
 
 amani79 (0)    (34 / M-F / Tanzania)
11-Jul-12 2:29 pm
@Jessica1989: may i give u a company

 

 

 
 
 Jessica1989 (1)    (35 / F-MF / Virginia)
11-Jul-12 5:19 pm
Nice to know there ppl like you all around and miss tell ur son that he doesn't need his ex's there just stepping stones to something greater

 

 

 
 
 rayminton49 
11-Jul-12 6:14 pm
@Jessica1989: Just look at it this way if the have a problem with the way you look. That truly is their problem and they shouldnt be worth your time or worries.

 

 

 
 
 rayminton49 
11-Jul-12 6:16 pm
@Rainbowbutterfly: beautifully said butterfly. I completely agree.

 

 

 
 
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