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Guilt (by Smh247)

 Smh247 
7-Dec-13 5:22 pm
I found out yesterday that my grandma had a mass in her colon, this morning they ran more test and found that the cancer has spread all over her body and now there isnt anything they can do. I really feel guily because this past year she has really been a b.itch so ive barely talked to her

 

 

 
 
 Zilya777 
7-Dec-13 5:26 pm
@Smh247: Oh honey.. Do not feel guilty. She may have been really going thru pain etc.. Just say & do what YOU are comfortable with now. Sorry to hear this news.

 

 

 
 
 1honestman 
7-Dec-13 5:29 pm
@Smh247: hey Jesse, you can't change the past. Just live today as if it's your last. Make peace with her and with yourself.

 

 

 
 
 Gracie75 
7-Dec-13 5:32 pm
I know the feeling i kindof pulled away from my grandmother this year, but on Thanksgiving i went and spent the day with her, it will probably be the lastone i get to be with her...imo make peace with her now while you can you still have time

 

 

 
 
 nokiaclassic (5)    (43 / M-F / Nwfp Peshawar)
7-Dec-13 5:56 pm
Very sad

 

 

 
 
 xNOBODYx 
7-Dec-13 6:27 pm
You can't change the past make peace with it and move forward the best you can

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
7-Dec-13 6:40 pm
@Smh247: my mother is dying from cancer and I don t think she will make it through the weekend. Spend what time you can and tell her how much you love her. Sometimes people don't know they are that sick and they don't feel good and get cranky. Forgive and make new memories and move forward. Good luck cancer royally sucks.

 

 



Last edited by brats52005; 7-Dec-13 6:44 pm.
 
 
 folu 
7-Dec-13 10:41 pm
@Gracie75: Now you cannot turn back the hands of the clock but LEARN from the incident. As far as you can, try to live peaceably with others.

 

 

 
 
 folu 
7-Dec-13 10:52 pm
@Smh247: Oh! My last advice was meant for you, not for Gracie!

 

 

 
 
 folu 
7-Dec-13 10:59 pm
@Gracie75: Please, ignore my last advice. It's actually meant for smh247!

 

 

 
 
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