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I really need a woman's perspective on this...because it makes no sense to me. (by ComeWhatEverMay864)
Why would a woman cheat on you when there was absolutely nothing wrong in the relationship? I did everything for her, made sure she was taken care of, loved her, and showed it all day, every day. Yet she cheated on me, and made up a story to get me bony belongings out of the house. Ladies, please open my eyes as to why someone would do this. I'm heartbroken, confused, and I'm not myself. I need to know why she would do this to me, and how to get over her. I need that closure. Can someone help me?
there are really pipol who still hurt u .. Hmm just remember that wommen are not the same.. :)
I believe that some people just have it in their nature to cheat. No matter how good things are for them, they cannot help themselves. Be it the 'chase' or whatever that appeals to them.
Some people also are not happy, no matter what. They yearn and search for that elusive something - maybe that was the one thing you didn't give her - she might not even know what it is.
The only way to move on is to just move on. Forget about her. Even asking her won't bring closure as I am sure she won't be honest with you and do you really want to open yourself up all over again to that hurt?
The worst thing to do is a rebound relationship - so make friends and go out and just enjoy yourself. You are still so young and your heart will be broken many times.
Some people also are not happy, no matter what. They yearn and search for that elusive something - maybe that was the one thing you didn't give her - she might not even know what it is.
The only way to move on is to just move on. Forget about her. Even asking her won't bring closure as I am sure she won't be honest with you and do you really want to open yourself up all over again to that hurt?
The worst thing to do is a rebound relationship - so make friends and go out and just enjoy yourself. You are still so young and your heart will be broken many times.
I know all women aren't the same. But the ones I've been with so far in my life are trying to prove me wrong on that one.
mmm well u know alot men are players and well alot of women are too. She wasnt in it for love. Shes in the game and sadly shes going to be played too. Paybacks a B****
@3n1gma: You may be right. But I dunno how much more heartbreak I can take. It's sad that I'm as young as I am, and already just about to give up completely. I called her out on it. After she texted me and broke up with me, making up excuses as to why she was breaking up with me. Said I made her feel like I was better than her, and that I wouldn't even cuddle her. Which is total BS.
@VELVETVEGA: She loved me at first. I know she did. I could feel it. I just don't know how or where things went south.
*me and my belongings. Not me bony belongings.
Women dont cheat because a relationship is bad....a woman cheats when there is smething in her life bothering her. It might not have anything to do with her man....it might be great....but she may need an outsider to talk to, to feel attention from, most women that cheat are depressed with work, kids, parents, etc....so dont blame urself jus know she had something going on in her life she couldnt grab ahold of.
hmm women are not the same. maybe ur girl isnt contented to the things u gave to her.
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