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Your Idea Of What the Forum Should Be (by Ram318)

 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
16-Jul-12 6:56 pm
@swanhillguy here is the thread.

 

 

 TheyCallMeMrRam318 
28-Oct-12 10:08 pm
Thought it wld be a good idea to bring this thread up again, in case any new people have any thoughts. I personally think some here shld realize that there are people here that are not going to agree with them on everything. They get offended when someone doesn't think the same way they do...and are even more offended when they can't express their views as well as others....they even resort to lies and personal attacks to cover up deficiencies in their ability to express their views. Tis sad. This a forum and respectful debate shld be encouraged.

 

 

 JLaDawn 
28-Oct-12 10:16 pm
I would like for everyone to stop getting so upset when others post something they dont like. I think the forums should be open to everyone and if someone is questioned about their opinion it not be considered being "jumped" or judged.
This states my views even better than my original post on this thread. Thanx for bringing this thread back up.

 

 

 Briteeyes1211 
28-Oct-12 10:48 pm
I feel that many users have PERSONAL thoughts about other members and those thoughts or opinions get brought out in posting. This should be STOPPED. Not everything should be addressed towards other users, nor should a post about them be brought up if not in a discussin with that user. I think personal views are interferring way to much these days

 

 

 IrishLove1988 (18)    (36 / F-M / New York)
28-Oct-12 10:53 pm
Unfortunately, the forums run on an interpersonal basis. People's views on one another are bound to make an appearance, and there's nothing anyone can do to change that. The key is to just be respectful. I, of all people, understand that it's not always possible to keep a neutral tone, especially when one is being attacked or someones personal bias is coming into play. The best we can do is handle ourselves with dignity, continue to speak our minds as respectfully as we can manage, and take our lumps (where appropriate).

 

 

 TheyCallMeMrRam318 
28-Oct-12 11:07 pm
I feel that many users have PERSONAL thoughts about other members and those thoughts or opinions get brought out in posting. This should be STOPPED. Not everything should be addressed towards other users, nor should a post about them be brought up if not in a discussin with that user. I think personal views are interferring way to much these days
that's true, but it works both ways. Just today, I was personally attacked by 2 difrerent users, just because I didn't agree with what one of them said. People have to realize that not everyone has the same views they do....and if they can't handle that, or resort to lies and attacks to save face, they make themselves look weak...

 

 

 galonely23 
28-Oct-12 11:12 pm
@Briteeyes1211: Just ignore them. We both know this was dragged back out just to rile certain ppl out. Remember how certain person's said they wanted to see you banned. Don't let them succeed.

 

 

 TheyCallMeMrRam318 
28-Oct-12 11:22 pm
@galonely23: I don't wanna see anyone banned, I don't roll like that....but since u decided to come here and try to start sh*t, the only problem I have w u is that u decided to say I was part of some "group". Sure, I disagreed with ur suggestion, but so what? Why did u say I was part of a group? Seems to me that the only "group" is u, and the friends u named in the title of your latest thread. U wanna work it out, u know how to find me....I don't block ANYONE from my inbox.

 

 

 galonely23 
28-Oct-12 11:25 pm
Hmmmm.......that's funny, I never mentioned any names about who wanted her banned nor did she tell me. Have you ever heard the saying "The guilty dog hollers"?

 

 

 IrishLove1988 (18)    (36 / F-M / New York)
28-Oct-12 11:27 pm
Isn't this the exact kind of drama everyone is wishing to avoid?

 

 

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