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My partner is too sexual. I don't like it (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
My partner is too sexual. I don't like it
Hi everyone. So my (25m) partner (24nb) is always horny. I had been aware of this from early on into the relationship but as our "**** like rabbits" phase is waning, I can't keep up. I'm a fairly sexual person myself. But I feel like I can moderate it well. However, they simply never stop being turned on and its starting to wear me down. I'll wake up most mornings to them just grinding on me to wake me up. They call me on the phone masturbating out of the blue and will continually moan through the call when I wasn't trying to have/initiate phone sex. They tell me every time that they masturbate and tell me what pictures of me they used. And sometimes, they will randomly get this dazed look on their face and is unable to stop speaking in innuendos or staring at my **** until we have sex and frankly I'll do it sometimes just to get my partner back and not just some **** toy.
But we have sex all the time. Like 2-4 times a day. I don't feel that I'm being a prude here or anything this feels like we still enjoy it more than lots of other couples. But it almost feels objectifying? Like that for all that I adore and love them, I still don't get much say in that aspect of our relationship because once they get turned on they're just this wet mess until we screw. Am I overthinking this? Being selfish? Being whiny? Maybe looking a gift horse in the mouth in that someone loves me that much? What's the reasonable response here?
I don't mean to make this sound like some egregious nonconsensual act, though. We've discussed it before and when I say "hey, you're doing that thing" they will stop, but I feel awful having to constantly reject them. With the frequency of these things not ever changing I just feel like I am the one being unreasonable.
TL;DR! My partner is the love of my life; once they get turned on, though (without warning at any given time), they are a completely different person until we have sex. Not a bad person-- just like an AI that only learned interface from Omegle video chats.
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Hi everyone. So my (25m) partner (24nb) is always horny. I had been aware of this from early on into the relationship but as our "**** like rabbits" phase is waning, I can't keep up. I'm a fairly sexual person myself. But I feel like I can moderate it well. However, they simply never stop being turned on and its starting to wear me down. I'll wake up most mornings to them just grinding on me to wake me up. They call me on the phone masturbating out of the blue and will continually moan through the call when I wasn't trying to have/initiate phone sex. They tell me every time that they masturbate and tell me what pictures of me they used. And sometimes, they will randomly get this dazed look on their face and is unable to stop speaking in innuendos or staring at my **** until we have sex and frankly I'll do it sometimes just to get my partner back and not just some **** toy.
But we have sex all the time. Like 2-4 times a day. I don't feel that I'm being a prude here or anything this feels like we still enjoy it more than lots of other couples. But it almost feels objectifying? Like that for all that I adore and love them, I still don't get much say in that aspect of our relationship because once they get turned on they're just this wet mess until we screw. Am I overthinking this? Being selfish? Being whiny? Maybe looking a gift horse in the mouth in that someone loves me that much? What's the reasonable response here?
I don't mean to make this sound like some egregious nonconsensual act, though. We've discussed it before and when I say "hey, you're doing that thing" they will stop, but I feel awful having to constantly reject them. With the frequency of these things not ever changing I just feel like I am the one being unreasonable.
TL;DR! My partner is the love of my life; once they get turned on, though (without warning at any given time), they are a completely different person until we have sex. Not a bad person-- just like an AI that only learned interface from Omegle video chats.
Source.
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