Pretty new here as well,however,have noticed alot of negative threads such as: I'm deletin, can't find anyone wah wah crap that gets old. That has a negative effect on some readers. I call them sympathy threads and avoid em.Don't get me wrong.If someone has a bad day or traumatic exp. I'll be one of the1st to offer condolences. Just burnt on repeat whiners.Thx. For hearin me out.

This is very true.

This is a wonderful idea. I love it.

I didnt read but the first 3 pages of this thread and im gonna go ahead and state my opinion. The forums have changed over the months, but then again so have the people, we've lost some and gained some. But what i see most of now is pointing out posts being made under the wrong topic, or cuz someone mentions "penis" they are gonna get banned. I also see alot more poems (which are great, but not very much u can discuss on that matter) i also see alot of im happy threads, which i am guilty of myself. People jus start up threads to be starting them in my opinion. The policing ive seen lately would be the calling out of "ur gonna get banned" and "this is in the wrong topic" not saying anything against the person, but geeezzz. I also read the 12.5 penis thread and didnt agree with the replys he was getting. We used to talk about cloneing willies for cring out loud.

I have a female neighbor that I saw join here not long ago, and when talking to her privately, I mentioned that she should join the forums. She's pretty open minded, but said she noticed a few posts from a certain few that only wanted to ask about sex put her off. The problem I have with those very few users is that their relentless, childish, embarassing and have no regard for the respect of other female members or the good of the forums! If they acted like adults, there would be no problem, but when they scare off potential new members, I feel the need to call them out about their motives!

@Hawkeye: I think that kind of touches on the *If you don't like the topic, avoid the thread* thing. No one forces our users to veiw threads that may offend them. I think as adults we should be able to openly discuss sex, in all of its facets, without fear of ridicule. While I agree that some users get repetitive with their threads asking FOR sex, I don't see anything wrong with a user asking ABOUT sex.

@Hawkeye58: Oh I agree. There is a very bold line btween talking abt sex in an adult manner and just being pervy. I want the perviness gone and the adult talk to continue. And for the record, I do enjoy havn a wee bit of fun at a perves expense, buts its all in good fun.

Agree 100% As long as it is something appropriate for discussion.

I agree with this as well, being flirty is fun!

I too agree. There is a line, and talking of it is one thing, I enjoy what is said in those posts mostly, but asking for it continuously gets annoying.