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UPDATE; I (18F) have decided to keep my baby, I don?t know how to tell my aunt who was going to adop (by Sparky)
UPDATE; I (18F) have decided to keep my baby, I don?t know how to tell my aunt who was going to adopt the baby.
I?d like to say thanks for all the comments I got on my last post!
I?ve been thinking hard.
I didn?t expect to get so attached to the baby but I did and I was thinking about my role in the babies life, would I regret it? Would I be able to be there for her?
I spoke to my aunt and told her that part of me wanted to keep the baby, a majority of me in fact.
We cried together and then finally got around to having the conversation I dreaded.
I realised I?d only been thinking about the guilt I?d feel, I could still have a role in bringing her up and I know she?ll be loved.
So I have to love the baby enough to realise that I?m not enough for her, I can?t sacrifice my future or my boyfriends future and risk the babies future either.
I asked a few things; I want a role in the babies life, just an aunt or something and I want to name the baby.
I?ve picked the name Hannah Claire.
I don?t know I still don?t feel comfortable with my decision and the guilt is eating me alive but at least I know she?ll be happy and loved.
So while I?m not happy with my decision it?s the best one I believe.
TL;DR made the hardest decision in my life to continue through with my babies adoption, still not certain on it but it?s the best choice.
Last post; https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...tm_name=iossmf
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I?d like to say thanks for all the comments I got on my last post!
I?ve been thinking hard.
I didn?t expect to get so attached to the baby but I did and I was thinking about my role in the babies life, would I regret it? Would I be able to be there for her?
I spoke to my aunt and told her that part of me wanted to keep the baby, a majority of me in fact.
We cried together and then finally got around to having the conversation I dreaded.
I realised I?d only been thinking about the guilt I?d feel, I could still have a role in bringing her up and I know she?ll be loved.
So I have to love the baby enough to realise that I?m not enough for her, I can?t sacrifice my future or my boyfriends future and risk the babies future either.
I asked a few things; I want a role in the babies life, just an aunt or something and I want to name the baby.
I?ve picked the name Hannah Claire.
I don?t know I still don?t feel comfortable with my decision and the guilt is eating me alive but at least I know she?ll be happy and loved.
So while I?m not happy with my decision it?s the best one I believe.
TL;DR made the hardest decision in my life to continue through with my babies adoption, still not certain on it but it?s the best choice.
Last post; https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...tm_name=iossmf
Source.
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