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I [23F] bought my friend's [24M] music and he found out, now he's hurt (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
13-Jun-19 10:40 am
I [23F] bought my friend's [24M] music and he found out, now he's hurt

EDIT: Didn't expect this to get so much attention. A lot of people have asked for a link to his music, however I don't think he'd want me to 'advertise' him like that and I feel like it would actually make the problem worse. So I won't do that sorry. He's been in contact with a local label anyway so things are already looking good for him.
My best friend has been producing music for years, he's on a pretty high level production-wise for an amateur and is slowly gaining a following online. I genuinely like his music, it's in a Genre we both like a lot, and I always give my honest feedback about his newest tracks, which is usually pretty positive. He tends to be very self-critical but which artist isn't.

So basically he set up a bandcamp account recently where people can download his music and can pay whatever they want for it. After a while, I had this idea that I want to buy his album so he feels better about his music, and also kinda because he doesn't have a lot of money. I paid about twice what you'd normally pay for a brand new music album which is absolutely no big deal for me financially.

Well.. next time we saw each other he excitedly told me that someone paid for his album and by that point I had almost forgotten and just kinda went 'oh yeah oh ****' internally and tried to act nonchalant but I guess I failed. It must have been on my face because he immediately asked if it was me and I didn't want to lie in his face so I said yes. Now he's hurt because he thought this random stranger liked his music so much they paid a lot for it, and a friend doesn't count I guess. I totally understand his emotional reaction. I'm a genuine fan and only wanted to support him, but basically he doesn't want alms.

He didn't really get mad over it, but I could tell from his face that it actually hurt him a lot and now I feel awkward about it. Should I just never mention it again, or apologize in detail or something?

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**tl,dr:** Friend thought a new fan had bought his music, but it was me. He feels like I only did it because we're friends and is hurt. What do I do?


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