Page 1 of 1
All Forums
My fiance [22 FtM] came out as trans after 4.5 years together but I [24m] am straight (by Sparky)
My fiance [22 FtM] came out as trans after 4.5 years together but I [24m] am straight
So after 4.5 together with my fiance he came out as transgender. This happened almost two months ago but I'm only now accepting the facts, the girl I love do not exist anymore and now there's a boy that I still love but don't know if I can give on my sexuality to stay with him.
Since I was in denial our relationship is in a bad situation because of this and I will have until Monday to decide if I want to break up or stay with him and accept him as he is. The thing is I don't want to break up because I do love him more than everything and even thinking about that makes me feel as if I would rip my soul apart, but I don't know if, in the long run, I will be able to have a romantic relationship with someone from a gender that I actually don't fell sexually attracted.
Some important information:
He is my first SO so it makes everything even harder to decide, since I can't really use previous experience and this makes me feel that I would be losing a important part of my sex life by staying with him.
We live together and our coexistence is great. He makes me a more organized person and I make him feel safer. We really like and care for each other.
He decided to forego HRT to stay with me which makes me feel bad because I don't want him to give up on what makes him happy but at the same time I'm sure that with HRT the relationship would be unbearable.
TL;DR; My fiance came out as transgender, I do love a lot him but don't know if can keep the relationship since I'm straight. And I have until monday to decide.
Source.
So after 4.5 together with my fiance he came out as transgender. This happened almost two months ago but I'm only now accepting the facts, the girl I love do not exist anymore and now there's a boy that I still love but don't know if I can give on my sexuality to stay with him.
Since I was in denial our relationship is in a bad situation because of this and I will have until Monday to decide if I want to break up or stay with him and accept him as he is. The thing is I don't want to break up because I do love him more than everything and even thinking about that makes me feel as if I would rip my soul apart, but I don't know if, in the long run, I will be able to have a romantic relationship with someone from a gender that I actually don't fell sexually attracted.
Some important information:
He is my first SO so it makes everything even harder to decide, since I can't really use previous experience and this makes me feel that I would be losing a important part of my sex life by staying with him.
We live together and our coexistence is great. He makes me a more organized person and I make him feel safer. We really like and care for each other.
He decided to forego HRT to stay with me which makes me feel bad because I don't want him to give up on what makes him happy but at the same time I'm sure that with HRT the relationship would be unbearable.
TL;DR; My fiance came out as transgender, I do love a lot him but don't know if can keep the relationship since I'm straight. And I have until monday to decide.
Source.
Page 1 of 1
Quick reply:
RULES:
- Be respectful at all times.
- Be mature and act like an adult.
- Respect different points of view.
- Discuss ideas, not specific users.
- Don't get personal.
- No profanity.
- No drama.
- No thread hijacking.
- No trolling.
- No spamming.
- No soliciting.
- No duplicate posting.
- No posting in the wrong section.
- No posting of contact information.
- Be welcoming to new users.
Similar threads:
- My [24F] fiancé [25M] of 7 years left me for another woman [28F]. I don't know how to cope. (by Sparky)
- Me [27 M] with my ex-fiance [24] was 4 years , how do I get her to believe that we are over and the (by Sparky)
- My [33F] fiance moved out in the middle of the day and left me [31M] after 9 years and less than 70 (by Sparky)
- Me [35F] with my Fiance [39M] 4 years, he died, I'm grieving and angry (by Sparky)
- Straight people of Reddit: when did you first realize you are straight? (by Sparky)
Login: