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I [28m] can’t have children. My girlfriend [25f] of three years is pregnant. What do I do? (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
12-Dec-17 8:12 pm
I [28m] can’t have children. My girlfriend [25f] of three years is pregnant. What do I do?

My girlfriend and I have been trying for a child for 12 months with no success. Finally, she became pregnant and we were over the moon. We both wanted two children. So i decided to go to the doctors to get my fertility checked. I thought I might of had a low sperm count. I told my girlfriend that I’d be going doctors to check my fertility.
Test results come back and I’m non-fertile. I can’t have children. I have no sperm in my ejaculation. I have low levels of hormones in the pituitary gland.
Well, that means I have not fathered the baby. I asked the medical doctor if there’s anyway I could ever get someone pregnant, he said no.
So I’m really shocked and just at a loss. She must have cheated on me so now I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking about leaving her without a discussion because it’s not like I’ll be leaving MY baby behind. As it wasn’t me who got her pregnant..
I’m sad that I’m infertile and knowing I’d never be able to father a biological child upsets me to no end. But I could have adopted or got some help like Artificial Insemination by donor for my girlfriend. But shes gone and cheated.
TLDR. :: girlfriend cheated on me because she’s pregnant but I’m infertile. Do I just leave?


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 MrWalkSoftly (16)     (58 / M-F / Louisiana)
12-Dec-17 8:17 pm
Geez....you nights had one in the barrel, you know.
It's simple, DNA test after the baby is born....but it's gonna be hell explaining that to the missus lol

 

 

 
 
 semisweet 
13-Dec-17 3:24 am
Maury!!!!!!

 

 

 
 
 MrWalkSoftly (16)     (58 / M-F / Louisiana)
13-Dec-17 3:31 am
maury!!!!!!
yessss!

 

 

 
 
 Critter1211 (11)       (49 / F-MF / Tennessee)
13-Dec-17 4:40 am
Lots of times men and women think they cant have children, but bammm, end up pregnant. It happens all the time.

 

 

 
 
 megsy89 (7)      (34 / F-MF / South Carolina)
13-Dec-17 8:11 am
My mom was told she'd never be able to conceive naturally by a doctor... when she was in after having just given birth to her second child... and two years later bam there I was

Her chances of getting pregnant were 1 in a million

 

 

 
 
 BigPapaRedneck (11)       (46 / M-F / Kansas)
14-Dec-17 5:28 am
@megsy89: But we already knew you are one in a million Meg

 

 

 
 
 megsy89 (7)      (34 / F-MF / South Carolina)
14-Dec-17 5:40 am
@BigPapaRedneck: I mean technically I'm 3 in 3mil since I came third lol

 

 

 
 
 BigPapaRedneck (11)       (46 / M-F / Kansas)
15-Dec-17 4:12 am
@megsy89: Nope. 1 in a million

 

 

 
 
 megsy89 (7)      (34 / F-MF / South Carolina)
15-Dec-17 4:39 am
@BigPapaRedneck: actually I'm 2 in a million, my twin just didn't develop fully (true story)

 

 

 
 
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