My profile clearly says-not interested in out of country let alone out of state. It also says if you are under 30 dont bother...why is it then, that almost every single message I get comes from young-uns and out of my area? Do I need to specify my area? Ugh!

@SammyToo: Add some drawings in crayon. They might understand that better than words.

@manondago2: lol!:)

@SammyToo: I think many people are disrespectful. They do not read profiles or they think they will have some magic words to alter your thinking. Or they think you may be a rich, lonely, desperate America woman ( like we ran out of all ages & races of men.. Lol ). I read profiles, before even opening the message & decide if it is worth reading. Then I either do not respond. Or ask them if they can read ? Myself I have had my restrictions on, USA WOMEN ONLY , for 3-4 months.... When my patience ended. Now, I decide if I want to message any new men, or not.

Lol! Seriously-less than a half hour of my posting this thread-a 26yr old from out of country hit on me on Walks thread about semen medicine! WTFing F!!?

@SammyToo: The tread attracted him. I had many women message me, that they are reluctant to post or only post on certain types of threads for this reson.

But thats the same concept as blaming a woman for bein raped because of her clothing. Just because I can be open and express myself sexually does not mean I want to screw all men-and hell all my sexy posts are truly meant to be humorous-I am a funny funny gal;) lol

@SammyToo: I agree w/your thinking. Ideally, this is the way it SHOULD be. But the reality of the horney & disrespectful is still there. And one course in many cultures (& religions) , for a woman to have any opinion or sexuality or even humor... is wrong or temporarily attractive , but not respected . :-(

So whats the solution? Stop making those types of threads because of a few bad apples? Nope, not me. They can bear the brunt of my sarcasm.....As to the women that wont post on certain threads, I suggest that they put on their big girl panties... and its probably more of an insecurity about themselves keeping them from posting, not some perv.

Well seeing as I am NOT interested in dating out of country-I would say if his culture or religion deems humor and sexual talk not to be respected in a woman, it should NOT affect me in the least-thats IF he reads my profile....